Are We Really Afraid of Change? Or Are We Afraid of Losing Our Choices?

A day in brighton

As someone who has lost her pink and gained it back numerous times, it’s safe to say I can call myself a colorful being—full of rainbows and so much more.

But this isn’t about colors, is it?

We, as human beings, fear change.

Changes in our mood.

Changes in relationships.

Changes in our emotions, our careers, our locations, our health.

I can confirm I have been one of those.

Worried about what the next step might be.

What if I take the wrong step?

What if I regret it and then cannot go back?

But are we really afraid of change? Or are we afraid of not having choices anymore?

If we look a bit deeper, maybe it’s not the fear of change at all. Maybe it’s the fear of being stuck.

Ugh, I think I’m confusing myself—maybe you as well.

Let me explain.

Maybe you want to change, but you worry—what if that change puts you in a place of regret? What if you end up stuck without any options?

But then again, if we don’t change, aren’t we stuck anyway?

It’s a cycle—a vicious one at that.

But what if, today, you believed you were supported no matter what? That everything would work in your favor?

Would you still fear change? Or would you take the leap?

Trust that no matter which direction you choose, abundance follows. The only thing you need to do is follow that spark, that light in your heart. Take that step—towards your dreams, towards hope.

Well, my loves, I hope today you find the courage in your heart to take that one little step towards everything good the world has to offer.

With Love,

Your Cosmic BFF Forever and Always

That cosmic girl B.

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